In Keeping With Tradition

Posted by mamabok | Amusing/Bizarre,Chinese | Monday 23 February 2009 5:45 pm




For those from Asia.. and living in the West, I am sure you can agree with me.. that we try very hard to hold on to our traditions.. and our cultural background.. for the sake of our children.  Sure I have been in the West for a long time.. but i refused to speak like the “ang mohs” because, I am me.. and like it or not.. people just gotta accept me .. as I am.

Some ppl thinks it is fun.. to make fun of the way i speak.. and the way .. i am superstitious .. and so forth.  They donch understand .. that these were the way i was brought up.. and those of my ancestor.  Therefore, when we do have Asians around.. we try our very best.. in our own little ways.. to exchange oranges.. and “ang pows” ..  not because to see who gives the most ang pow.. but moreso because of tradition.. and what we Chinese believe.. some good luck .. and good sayings.

So this year’s Chinese New Year.. i made sure.. i gave Mr Choo (from the Chinese restaurant)  a basket of 8 oranges.. and 2 ang pows symbolizes “fatt, fatt”.  And i also went beyond the call of duty.. and called .. Mr Choo’s landlord.. to give him a money plant .. before the Chinese New Year is over.. and told him.. it’s our tradition.  Mr Choo’s business landlord was also ours.. some many years ago.. and he is by far the best person and landlord that we’ve come across.. and YES..!!  He did give Mr Choo that money plant.

How do you try to keep tradition.. in a foreign land..  ??  share share lah.

7 Comments »

  1. Comment by becca — February 24, 2009 @ 9:35 am

    my parents are really supertitious too!
    they would make sure that if they were to visit someone else that they had oranges and a red envelope. haha

  2. Comment by flora — February 24, 2009 @ 9:44 pm

    oranges r ok wen they r sweet.my family grab a bag of oranges for each temple we go on new yrs day

  3. Comment by HN — February 25, 2009 @ 8:37 am

    I gave ‘ang pows’ to the daughters of Chinese restaurant tauke too! Their parents were very surprised, and gave Sethy an ‘ang pow’ when we revisited them later :)

  4. Comment by soofen — February 25, 2009 @ 12:18 pm

    I have been living in London for almost 5 years now… and since then I have no chance to celebrate Chinese New Year with my family back home(miss them all so much). With as little knowledge I got about most of the must-do tradition without my mom’s instruction, I did cleaning by 29th (which I hated while back in hometown), decorated the house with auspicious blessings banners, restricted foul words for visitors, greet everyone I see with blessing, reunion dinner.:) It’s ashamed I don’t get any Ang Pow here…

  5. Comment by tracy — April 8, 2009 @ 9:58 am

    hihi, mama bok^.^ hapi birthday o~~ selamat harijadi, sheng ri kuai le,
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  6. Comment by bunessa — April 8, 2009 @ 4:19 pm

    gum gum =D yay!!! i likes i likes

  7. Comment by Stephanie — April 9, 2009 @ 5:45 am

    I’m lucky that we can easily get the festive supplies around where I live. Not too hard to keep the traditions alive.

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