Valentine’s Day is just round the corner and I’m sure you’ve been asked what you want to do on Valentine’s day.  Sometimes, I wonder why the men don’t take the initiative and be a little romantic even though one had been married for many years.  I know of a friend who had a blast one year – when the spouse bought some  cheap brass instruments  and blast the horns at their home during dinner with a few friends.  Being romantic need not be the classic candlelight dinner, being romantic can be  a lot of different ways and if music is something your spouse like, why not pick up a cheap musical instrument and surprise her with hamburgers in the garden, I think that could be very romantic too – serenading the wife or girlfriend.  This Valentine, don’t make the excuse of being together for so long, that you cannot inject some fun and spice into your life.  Come on ! you only lived once!